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To decide on an outcome.

To cut yourself off from all other possibilities.

But, here’s the thing we mess up when it comes to decisions. We think they are one and done.

You made the decision, case closed.

Or is it?

When we make the decision when we decide to do something, to achieve something we’re making the core decision.

And in making that decision we cut ourselves off from other possibilities.

That’s not the end of the story.

Every core decision has to be backed by a multitude of core decision backing decisions.

The moment to moment decisions that support your core decision.

The moment to moment actions that prove you really did cut yourself off from other possibilities.

It’s in making the core-decision-backing-decisions that your future is shaped. It’s where the rubber meets the road.

It’s where you demonstrate your commitment to the outcome you decided you want.

This is where people slip up.

Where our doubts, fears, excuses, and bullshit keep us from what we want.

This is the unsexy work.

The daily disciplines and habits that produce the outcome.

It’s the stuff we want to skip.

The things that are easy to do and easy not to do.

The things that don’t seem to make much of a difference on their own, but when added together produce massive results.

It’s the behind the scenes work that gets you the outcome.

Decide your outcome.

Cut yourself off from other possibilities.

Do the unsexy work.

Be committed to making the moment-to-moment core-decision-backing-decisions.

And don’t quit, your desired outcomes are waiting for you.

Remember, you absolutely can Love Your Life and Live Your Dreams. It all begins within.
xoxo natalie

Hey there!

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I'm Natalie, and I'm pleased to welcome you to my little corner of the internet. I'm a mindset coach and business strategist for women who know they were born for more and are ready to claim it.

Outside of business, I'm a kitty mama, meditation-lovin' vegan, with a daily workout obsession (1,811 days and counting!), who loves the wrtiten word.

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