Live your life for you.
Love yourself enough to live the life you dream of.
You don’t need permission to live your life your way. Even though you might sometimes feel like you do.
The only permission slip required is one from you.
You get to do business your way.
You get to do life your way.
Yet, often we don’t.
Maybe we’ll let ourselves resist doing things others say we have to do. But we don’t always allow ourselves to do the things we want to do in the way we want to do them.
If we did and it fails then it feels a whole heck of a lot more personal. We can no longer say “well, so-and-so’s system doesn’t work for me”.
We’ve lost the ability to blame someone or something else for our results.
And that is scary as fuck.
It’s scary to take total and complete responsibility for our lives.
It’s also the most fucking freeing thing that we can do.
But that fear.
Oh, that fear—it stops us.
It’s a sneaky bastard, lying in wait.
We work their system and process telling ourselves that of course, it will work.
Yet, beneath the surface, a fear lurks.
A fear that it WILL work and then you’ll be trapped inside a business that isn’t fully soul-aligned, trapped inside a life that isn’t the life you dream of.
So, your mind gives you an ‘out’.
You have an out because there is a system you’re following and if it doesn’t work…well it’s the system’s fault, not yours.
You have an out because you aren’t doing your true work.
But you know, deep down, that you’re lying to yourself.
It’s not the system.
You don’t have an ‘out’.
It’s all on you. And you know this.
You know this even when your mind tries to convince you otherwise.
You know it’s you that’s keeping it from working because you’re trying to ignore your soul. You’re trying to fit in, to follow the system.
Because it’s less scary to say “the system didn’t work” than it is to say “my way didn’t work”.
BUT, do you really believe—and I mean really and truly down at a core level believe—that your way, your truth, your ideas, your vision won’t work?
No, you don’t.
It’s just terrifying to accept that doing it your way fully and completely IS the way.
Doing it fully your way removes any and all opportunities for your mind to pass off any “failure” to someone or something else.
It all becomes 100% your responsibility.
And that’s scary as fuck.
But, gorgeous don’t you get it, don’t you see that it already is 100% your responsibility? It’s already all on you.
And if it’s all on you why not choose to do it your way?
It’ll feel better. I promise you.
Remember, you absolutely can Love Your Life and Live Your Dreams. It all begins within.